Recently met some nice cool friends by the pool... Lolx..
How slim a chance to meet someone in the pool that you totally not sure about and can click from the moment we started speaking... HOW DRAMA can that be?? hehe... i mean literally..
Anyways that is not the main point here ladies and gentlemen...
From him, i learnt alot of things in life which i myself haven't got the chance to express or experience it... For one of the topics is love language in terms of individual inner expressions...
The five signs of love are :
1. Quality words
The person who falls under this category like to hear alot of words and explanations like 'I love you', ' I miss you', 'I want you by my side', 'I need you', etc (GOOSeBuMPs)
2. Physical touch
This kind of person like people to give a warm touch or even others to touch them in a form of acknowledgement or comfort like hugs, kisses, hold hands, shoulder rubs, etc
3. Quality time
People who falls in this category like fullest attention from their partners. All they want is all their attention focus on him and him alone. NO PHONES, NO CHIT CHAT WITH OTHERS, NO YOU DO YOUR THINGS AND I DO MY THINGS WHEN WE MEET.
4. Small gifts/surprises
All or should i say most people like the element of surprise. It will helps to keep the love cooking... wink* Needless of explanation as it is self explanatory... Nevertheless, explaining to the @!#$$%#% people who clueless about love is.... Surprises in terms of small gifts, candlelight dinner, etc.. Basically just thoughtfulness.!!! Still clueless?!???!?!! WATCH MORE TELEVISION LA DeY (indian accent).....
5. Act of services
This should be quite similar to no. 4. It talks about things like fetching from work, massages if tired, preparing dinner for them, breakfast in bed,etc... You name it they will do it... Again.. It is thoughfulness...
Well, you need not be just one category... You can rank them up and see which one is the top most in your list and work it down.. That is why most couple quarrels and not knowing why and what happen or how to express them.. From the above five, find the common factor in which both the parties can communicate and work out from there... This is one of the ways to stay long in a relationship... Hope it will help out the couples of the world... May everyone find their true love... ^_^
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